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Did I Go 0–2 or 2–0 In Marriages?
Different Way’s To Look At A Negative Situation
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Don’t ask me why but as I’m sitting here on this cold and icy day a thought came into my mind about my past. A past that unfortunately involves me being married twice and both ended in divorce. Graduating with a Master’s in divorce isn’t something that I’m proud of. It means that I’ve failed twice at being a great husband to my mate. It’s a tough pill to swallow but is there a way for me to flip this negative into a positive?
In trying to find a positive I decided to take this angle. In two different situations at some point and time I was the apple of someone’s eye. So much so, that they decided that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with me. That equals 2 yes’s that I received when I got down on that bad right knee and asked for their hand in marriage. Before I go further I want to say that I don’t take that lightly one bit and I really do wish things would have gone in a different direction.
Now, back to me trying to sell you on this BS theory. Instead of me looking at this being an 0 for 2 situation I can look…