My Top 10 Ways To Connect With Your StepKids

Don’t Get Offended This Is My Damn List (No Particular Order)

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1. Treat Them Just Like They Are Your Kids
2. Let Them Know That You Will Never Try To Replace Their Real Parent
3. Take The Time To Find Out The Things They Like To Do
4. Observe Their Personalities And Build Around It
5. Let Them Know They Can Ask You Any Questions They Have
6. Plan Outings Or Events That Involves Their Mom Or Dad
7. Talk And Spend Time With Them Alone Without The Other Parent
8. Let Them Know That You Love Them
9. If You Have Kids Also Make Sure To Include Everyone As A Family
10. Refer To Them As Your Son Or Daughter Not Your Step Kids

Bonding and finding a connection with your stepkids can be challenging in some situations. It is not impossible. All it takes is love, care, and patience and it can be done. Above, are a few steps that you can take that should aid in the process.

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