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Why Are You Joining A Fraternity Or Sorority In Your 30’s & 40's?
2 min readMay 17, 2022
Don’t Get Offended I’m Just Curious
- If you attended college for four years and didn’t join a frat or sorority during that time, why are you joining one in your 30s or 40s?
- Do you feel like you missed out on doing it while in college?
- Are you doing it to feel like you are part of a special group of individuals?
- What are you looking to gain by joining now?
- Are you doing it so you can wear the gear and letters in public to functions?
- Did you possibly go to a school where the fraternity or sorority wasn’t available for you to join at the time?
- Are you joining for social status purposes?
- How can joining your selected organization benefit you currently?
- Are you joining because it’s just something you want to fucking do because it’s your life?
- Will you feel like life is complete once you join?
I’m going to be honest right now and admit that I’m writing from a hatin point of view on this subject. I left off the g because I don’t mean that type of hate. I’ve never and probably never will understand why middle-aged individuals all of a sudden decide that they want to join a fraternity or…